Jennifer Lopez Reportedly Feels 'Betrayed' After Video Captured Ben Affleck Hugging Jennifer Garner

Published: Mar 07 2025

Jennifer Lopez is rumored to be feeling a profound sense of "betrayal" as she observes her ex-husband, Ben Affleck, spending increased time with Jennifer Garner. This revelation surfaced after Affleck was caught in a cozy embrace with Garner during a family outing, amplifying whispers that their communication has skyrocketed compared to past interactions. A video capturing this intimate moment between Affleck and Garner has ignited speculation about a potential rekindling of their past romance.

Following the viral video of Affleck and Garner getting close during a paintballing excursion, an insider revealed to the Daily Mail that Lopez, Affleck's ex-wife, felt a pang of "betrayal." "[JLo] witnessed the paintballing snapshots alongside the rest of the world, inevitably prompting her to reflect on their shared past," disclosed the insider. "Her circle of friends has also expressed doubts about the platonic nature of Jen [Garner] and Ben's relationship." They further elaborated, "She feels betrayed due to the immense support she lent Affleck during his struggles and the tumultuous year their marriage unraveled."

Jennifer Lopez Reportedly Feels 'Betrayed' After Video Captured Ben Affleck Hugging Jennifer Garner 1

The source delved deeper, asserting that Lopez's suspicions about her ex-husband's closeness to the mother of his children have been exacerbated by this recent development. "Witnessing how swiftly he has resumed spending quality time with Garner has only intensified her preexisting concerns about their relationship during their marriage," continued the insider.

Weeks prior, whispers buzzed that Affleck and Garner were communicating more frequently than ever. Recently, individuals close to the duo speculated that they might be contemplating reigniting their romantic spark. Although neither Affleck nor Garner has publicly addressed these rumors, a confidant close to the "Accountant" star shed light on why Affleck has reached out more to Garner post his amicable divorce from Lopez.

"After reuniting with J.Lo, it became crystal clear to Ben that she wasn't 'the one who got away,' nor was she the love of his life. Jen [Garner] was," the insider confided to the Daily Mail. These sentiments reportedly became more pronounced as Garner supported Affleck through his separation from Lopez, especially during emotionally challenging times. The source added, "Jen stood by his side through his divorce, and she will always do so. They are inseparable friends and share a bond through their children."

Regardless of Affleck's feelings, a romantic reunion with the mother of his children might not materialize anytime soon for multiple reasons. "Fresh out of a marriage and having finalized his divorce [from Lopez], Ben is engrossed in his work commitments and focused on embarking on a new chapter," an insider recently revealed to Page Six. Additionally, Affleck respects Garner's current relationship with John Miller and has no intentions of interfering.

Even if circumstances permitted, Garner isn't inclined to reignite her romance with Affleck, as she is content and fulfilled in her relationship with the tech CEO. "Jen's feelings aren't reciprocal. She's thrilled with John, and that's where her priorities lie," shared another insider. "She has an exemplary co-parenting relationship with Ben, and that's the status quo for her at present."

As time progresses, it is anticipated that Garner and Affleck will maintain their close bond. However, this intimate connection has reportedly made Miller feel uneasy.Nevertheless, he was inclined to adopt a lenient stance towards it, as he understood the unique dynamics of Affleck and Garner's former relationship."Does it irritate John when he sees them being affectionate? Absolutely," shared an insider. The source continued, "It would bother anyone, but this isn't new territory. Ben and Jen share a unique bond, especially for exes. He adores her more than any woman besides his mother. Ben will forever flirt with Jen, and she views it as harmless."

The CEO of The Cali Group reportedly harbors hopes that Garner will reconsider her closeness with Affleck now that his divorce from Lopez is finalized. "John is attempting to navigate Ben and Jen's relationship by largely remaining silent, but it's incredibly challenging," a source told the Daily Mail. "He acknowledges that Ben must be present as a father and is more than okay with that, but he aspires to be the dominant figure in the relationship."

"John only discusses Ben when Jen or their children bring him up. He never initiates conversations about him," the source added.

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