Lisa Kudrow Says She Realized ‘Friends’ Provided a “Mental Health Service” for Viewers After 9/11

Published: Aug 06 2024

The renowned actress, Lisa Kudrow, graced the airwaves of Ted Danson and Woody Harrelson's captivating podcast, 'Where Everybody Knows Your Name' on SiriusXM, where she divulged heartwarming insights into her journey with the iconic sitcom, 'Friends.' During this enchanting conversation, centered around her current series, 'Time Bandits,' Kudrow unveiled the profound realization that her beloved show had transcended mere entertainment, offering solace and comfort amidst life's tumultuous moments.

Lisa Kudrow Says She Realized ‘Friends’ Provided a “Mental Health Service” for Viewers After 9/11 1

"As I'd drive home through the bustling streets of L.A.," she reminisced with a touch of nostalgia, "occasionally, a fellow driver would catch my eye, offer a gentle smile or a wave, accompanied by an audible 'Ah.' But post-9/11, these encounters took on a deeper meaning. I'd encounter individuals beside me, their faces etched with exhaustion and fatigue, who would simply utter, 'Thank you.' Those words, heavy with emotion, almost brought me to tears, dawning on me the remarkable truth—we, through 'Friends,' were providing a vital service, akin to a mental sanctuary."

Kudrow delved into the challenges of navigating the dizzying heights of fame that accompanied the show's meteoric rise in the late 90s, crediting her family as her steadfast anchor, grounding her amidst the whirlwind.

Shifting gears, she shared a poignant anecdote from her 'Friends' days, where she found herself struggling to maintain the same level of commitment and dedication as the series progressed. "I was slipping into complacency, feeling lazy and harshly self-critical," she confessed. It was then that her esteemed co-star, Matt LeBlanc, intervened with a word of wisdom. "He noticed my distress and inquired, 'What's troubling you?' I confessed, 'I'm slacking, not giving it my all like in the early seasons. I fear I'm not doing justice to Phoebe.' To my surprise, he reassured me, 'No, you've mastered your character now. The hard work is done. You've got this.' It was a revelation—a moment of clarity that left me stunned yet enlightened."

Interestingly, despite the show's enduring popularity, Kudrow confessed that she had only recently watched 'Friends' in its entirety, having initially found it too embarrassing. However, following the tragic loss of her beloved co-star, Matthew Perry, she embarked on a nostalgic journey, revisiting the series as a tribute to his inimitable humor and memory.

"It's a celebration of his unparalleled wit," she said, her voice laced with warmth and admiration. "That's what I cherish most about him. And I'm continually amazed by the comedic prowess of my fellow cast members—Courteney Cox, Jen [Aniston], Matt LeBlanc, and David Schwimmer; each one a gem in their own right. At times, even my own performances leave me in stitches."

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