Ray J Says He's Slept With 12,500 Women

Published: Apr 29 2026

In a candid and eye-opening confession, the "Sexy Can I" singer, Ray J, revealed his bedroom activities during an episode of the "Funky Friday" podcast on April 24th. He disclosed that he has slept with thousands of women in his lifetime so far, stating, "These are 10,000 different people," before clarifying, "It's like at [12,500] now."

When host Cam Newton expressed skepticism over the number, pointing out that the math roughly totaled to "sleeping with a little over one-and-a-half women a day for 30 years," Ray J doubled down on his claim. He retorted, "The math is different because when we're on tour, we're thinking five to 10 a day." He further estimated that there have been around 3,500 instances in which he had sex with "three or more" partners at once. "I'm not capping," he said.

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Ray J, who has previously dated Kim Kardashian, Olivia Alvarez, and Brittany Pena, as well as the winners of "For the Love of Ray J," Joanna "Cocktail" Hernandez and Connie "Mz Berry" Deveaux, shared that he threw a party at the Booby Trap club when he hit five digits. "I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f--ked with came through, supported," he said. "It was a massive parade."

However, at 45 years old, the R&B star doesn't think he has the energy to keep up. "I can only f--k a thousand more b---hes," he quipped, referring to his lingering health issues after a hospitalization for pneumonia in January. "I can't do anymore."

Despite his numerous conquests, Ray J holds a special place in his heart for his estranged wife, Princess Love, with whom he shares daughter Melody, 7, and son Epik, 6. As he put it, "nobody" can compare to the "Deadly Getaway" actress. "She's a great mom," he said. "She has my kids. She deserves it."

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