In her recent guest appearance on the "Call Her Daddy" podcast, Chappell Roan divulged into a variety of topics, detailing the expectations placed upon her and the shift in fan interactions that now keeps a respectful distance in public. As a Grammy-winning singer-songwriter who unapologetically voices her opinions and beliefs, Roan elucidated to host Alex Cooper the paradoxical nature of her public persona, where being outspoken can both empower and ensnare her, as individuals assume she holds expertise on every subject she dares to comment on.
"Because I'm gay, people anticipate me to adhere to a distinct set of rules, to be impeccably politically correct, and to possess a profound knowledge on matters of sexuality," Roan articulated. "Consequently, I'm bombarded with an array of bizarre inquiries that my peers would scarcely encounter. My sexuality and vocal stance make me a target for these queries, yet it doesn't imply that I'm an oracle on every facet of life I hold opinions about, like being gay."
The artist behind "Pink Pony Club" further elaborated, "For instance, I'm not an authority on womanhood. I'm not versed in the intricacies of fashion, drag, or performance arts. I strive to be informed, but whenever I falter in answering a question or fail to acknowledge a particular community, I'm confronted with the daunting query: How can one person manage it all? How do these women juggle tours, songwriting, performances, interviews, sleep, nourishment, workouts, while also leading teams, being bosses, managing payrolls, and staying politically astute?"
Roan's unwavering candor has previously stirred controversy. Prior to the 2024 presidential election, she garnered backlash for announcing her support for Kamala Harris without fully endorsing the former vice president. Additionally, her plea for health insurance for recording artists during her 2025 Grammys speech sparked widespread discourse.
During her chat on "Call Her Daddy," Roan also shared how her fan interactions have evolved since establishing personal boundaries to address concerns stemming from fan behavior during her ascent to fame. "I sense a fear in people towards me," she confessed. "My firm stance on maintaining personal space has made people hesitant to approach me. I've witnessed this firsthand with friends who are artists; when they're with me, they remark, 'There's an invisible barrier around us. No one dares to approach me in your presence.' It's as if my message resonates: 'Stay back, don't touch, don't intrude. I'm unknown to you,' and they heed the warning, respecting our space."
The singer behind the hit "Good Luck, Babe!" acknowledged that she is aware her actions "truly sting, as they perceive it as a disrespectful gesture, believing I owe them something and questioning my right to label it as misuse or griping about my success." Yet, she emphasized the importance of safeguarding herself first. "I'm not griping about my achievements," Roan clarified. "I'm merely voicing my discomfort with eerie conduct. Admiration is something I cherish, as everyone does. It's just that, I crave for moments of solitude, especially when I'm in a spat with my girlfriend. Imagine someone intruding, asking, 'Can I snap a picture?' while I'm in tears, conversing with her? That's absolutely nuts."
During her engaging chat with Cooper, the artist of "Hot To Go!" also disclosed that she's been in a "committed" relationship for half a year now. "I haven't been on a date since my fame skyrocketed," Roan confessed. "I'm still dating the same person from before my rise to fame. I'm unsure how I'd navigate dating now. It seems like a nightmare. I'd probably be single right now, constantly questioning people's motives. I'm petrified. I don't trust anyone anymore. Every time I text someone new, I can't help but think, 'They might screenshot this and share it with others.'"
Furthermore, she teased about her upcoming music, hinting that her new single "The Giver" is just the beginning of a musical journey. The past year has been a whirlwind for Roan, who shot to fame after the release of her debut album, The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess, in September 2023. Earlier this year, she was honored with the Best New Artist award at the 67th Grammy Awards.
